Where do I belong? Been questioning this sentence to my self for a while now. I have troubled sleeping. I couldn’t concentrate for one thing at a time. My mind is always wandering. I can’t rest well and my body is not in a good health also. People say that you don’t need to hearContinue reading “Where do I belong?”
Author Archives: darkjasm
A woman who loves black and white but stuck in between. a Happy wife and proud Mother trying to navigate the world of psychology in national security. Currently loves to write about life and what happen around it. Expect to find many random thoughts in between.
Playing the victim game
“Homo homini lupus” -Plautus We know some people who always behave like they are the victim. They never admit that they do something wrong, moreover, they blame someone for what happen in their life. People who always put their blame in others is doing something that we call playing the victim game or self-victimization syndrome.Continue reading “Playing the victim game”
a Tribute for @diedroc
Once upon a time, a boy was born to earth in the eleventh of June, 1981. a cousin of mine. He was the only son of his parents until his brother born in 1983. His Parents named him Dody Cahyadi, I don’t have a clue why they name him that. I used to see himContinue reading “a Tribute for @diedroc”
Zhazha Invades Jakarta #AnotherLatePost
Early this April, My lovely niece Zhafira Khalifa Laiqa along with her mother “MaZha”, father “PaZha”, grandfather “atuk” and aunty visited me for about a week. We had joyful holiday.. Day 1 after their arrival, we went to Ragunan Zoo, I’ve asked them to go early in the morning because it will be sunny thatContinue reading “Zhazha Invades Jakarta #AnotherLatePost”
Marching March #SuperLatePost
Last march I went to Magelang and Bali for my university admission test. Nope, I am the examiner, not the participant. 😀 In Magelang, we had >200 participants, so we have to work harder but still had so much fun, while in Denpasar we only tested 48 participants… it was a holiday under cover.. 😀Continue reading “Marching March #SuperLatePost”
Jakarta… Oh Jakarta…
Wow! Here I am, at Burger King Rest Area Cibubur (at jagorawi toll road) in 00.03am… Hujan yang dimulai tadi sore dan memang cukup lebat ternyata berdampak besar pada jalanan di jakarta, and i have no idea about it until i’ve got stuck in the traffic for about 4 hrs and still nowhere near myContinue reading “Jakarta… Oh Jakarta…”
Gotye and everything else that I used to know
You can get addicted to a certain kinda sadness Like resignation to the end, always the end -Gotye’s Somebody that I Used to Know I didn’t used to write about music, because I know nothing about it. nothing at all. But something in Gotye’s song made me do so. I feel an urge to writeContinue reading “Gotye and everything else that I used to know”
Happy 1st Birthday!
Happy birthday beautiful niece.. Zhafirah Khalifa Laiqa
Mumbling #3
another long break from writing. I owe someone a review about her cake for one of my best friend, and I can’t post it now since I haven’t get the photos from Mr. J yet. hoah.. *yawn* I’m not in my perfect condition now. Got cough when I’m in Pekanbaru last weekend and now iContinue reading “Mumbling #3”
Happy Trip to Bandung
Last long holiday, I got invitation from Mr.J’s fam to spend my holiday in Bandung. Sayangkan jika undangan yang sangat bagus ini disia-siakan? Maka berangkatlah saya ke Bandung pada hari minggu pagi. Berangkatnya sih was-was, takut jalanan macet karena Bandung kan identik dengan macet, tetapi untungnya jalanan hanya ramai lancar. Kami hanya memerlukan waktu sekitarContinue reading “Happy Trip to Bandung”
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