for a Beautiful Bride

Nearly 15 years ago, I met a girl, using round eye-glasses for her sharp eyes with a short hair that gave her a “tough” person image.

Our first encounter was in Muhibbah Camp and she was a troop leader. An elementary school girl with lots of Scouting experiences. We weren’t friendly back then because of our troop had some kind of hard feeling that I couldn’t recalled why.

One year later, when I was in my second year of junior high school, We met again. She was a first year and when we were in our weekly scout meeting, she was already a star because she knew our trainer very well. Nope, we weren’t friend yet but the hard feeling is over, we started fresh and nice “hi” relationship.

National Scout Jamboree was the reason of our forever-last friendship. We were the only female delegates from our school and turned out that her families were old friends of my parents. After the Jamboree, we’ve been through many journeys together, Ranger Scout National Championship was one of the event that made our bond became stronger (this is the way I use darkjasm as my nick, you could read about it here. She is the leader of the Jasmine Troop). We went to the same senior high school, one year apart but we went to different university. Distance was not and never will be an obstacle in our friendship. We remained strong during the university time, even we weren’t talking to each other every day, we always knew that we have each other.

She was a born leader. I adore her for her amazing personality. She is the one that I can always count if anything happen to me. She is a pearl for me. I am blessed to have her in my life and much more blessed to call her my best friend.

Last week supposed to be the a happy week for her. Human can only plan, God will do the rest. Her father passed away a day before her wedding. I know right there that I need to be with her, maybe she is tough enough to deal it on her own, since I am the lamest one between us, not her, but I know that the least I could do to return all the favor that she has done to me is to be with her in that saddest moment of her life.

The wedding ceremony was held with many adjustments, because her family believe that her father would not approve if the wedding to be delayed. 25th of January, Jeliria Karniawati, my best friend is now someone’s wife, Deny Rendra‘s wife to be exact.

My beautiful girl turned to be a very beautiful bride.
I know that Papa really loves you and I know that he saw how beautiful you were on your wedding dress.
I love you to the end of the galaxy!

Happy Birthday to you, my beloved best friend.. I am still amazed that you could handle me gently for such a long time, because I know I am a hard person to befriend.

Thank you for being my best friend.
I wish the very best wishes for your new life, Mrs Idhen.. 😆
Love,
The tenth Jasmine
ps. Just found out that the daily post is also about a BFF.
…I don’t know why I couldn’t upload the photos, always get the error notif. Will be uploading it soon.

It’s Just Another Way to Communicate

It’s a fast respond for this post from one good friend of mine

Courtesy of Gustilaya Riza

H.O.N.E.S.T

is a way you should do when you communicate

Look closer

Open your heart and mind

U.N.D.E.R.S.T.A.N.D.I.N.G

is what you need while you communicate

You and Me,

different person and different personality

Don’t push someone to understand you, when you are not willing to do the same

J.O.K.E

is not a BAD way to communicate

Life is gonna be hard if you are really serious

You just need to take a right time to do it.

S.H.A.R.E

How do we communicate, you said?

Well, I have no Idea how to do it the way you want

But hey..

Sometime, when you really need it,

just tell it all in the simplest way.

LET IT GO.

SHARE IT.

H.E.A.R.T

and when everything is going to be really bad,

believe me.

You always have someone who love you by your side,

understanding you. Even when you say nothing.

That is what happen, when your heart communicates.

P.s Thank you very much for these lovely words, Agust!

I feel blessed to have friends like mine.

Love,

@darkjasm

a note from a bestfriend

Orang lain selalu datang dan pergi dalam hidup kita. Begitu juga halnya dengan segala sesuatu yang ada di muka bumi. Gak akan ada yang bertahan selamanya. Memang begitulah takdir yang sudah digariskan oleh-Nya. Semua berlalu, menghilang dan terlupakan seiring waktu. Gak bisa diperlambat, gak bisa dipercepat, apalagi dihentikan.

Apa yang kita alami di masa lalu, akan menjadi kenangan di masa kini dan menjadi pelajaran untuk masa depan. Biarlah menjadi memori indah yang selalu menghiasi ingatan kita. Tarik hikmah dari tiap serpihan takdir yang telah kita lewati. Itu akan jadi pengalaman berharga dari pada hanya menyesali diri.

Sedih memang kalo ingat segala hal yang ‘tidak sempat’ kita lakukan saat kita masih dikelilingi teman. Tapi bukan berarti kita boleh berputus asa, mari kita rajut lagi memori baru yang menyenangkan bersama apapun dan siapapun yang menemani kita menjalani setiap detik perputaran waktu.

a respond for this post

Courtesy of Ridho M. Dhani.

p.s Thank you for not asking anything and thank you for not laughing at me, at all.

🙂

in d fantasy land,,

have u ever stare at your phone for a million seconds just to make sure that there’s no new message??

have u ever cross your finger just to pray that he’ll text u soon??

have u ever feel like zombie when he’s not around??

…maybe this is what they call a roaller coaster of love,,

when ur heart is changing fastly,,

when ur feeling is empty instantly,,

when ur eyes is seeing the other shortly,,

…maybe and just maybe this song will suit your feeling,,

just like mine,,

a song from Zigas,,

Kuhantarkan bak di pelataran
Hati yang temaram
Matamu juga natap mataku

Ada hasrat yang mungkin terlarang

Satu kata yang sulit terucap
Hingga batinku tersiksa
Tuhan tolong aku jelaskanlah
Perasaanku berubah jadi cinta

Tak bisa hatiku merapikan cinta
Karena cinta tersirat bukan tersurat
Meski bibirku terus berkata tidak
Mataku terus pancarkan sinarnya

Kudapati diri makin tersesat
Saat kita bersama

Desah nafas yang tak bisa teruskan

Persahabatan berubah jadi cinta

Apa yang kita kini tengah rasakan
Mengapa tak kita coba persatukan
Mungkin cobaan untuk persahabatan
Atau mungkin sebuah takdir Tuhan

…sekeping kisah lagi dalam mozaik hidupku,,