This is my take on Final Match of The 2018 World Cup – France vs Croatia. This match is beyond the football court. Many kind of narratives are being shared about the team: feminism and diversity are things that pop up in my mind after I figure out ton of things behind both team.
Category Archives: Social Psychology
Social and cultural application of psychology.
a Civilized Way to Disagree
If you are not in the same path with others in one thing, if what they did hurt you deep in the heart, even if it really is something beyond forgiven in your faith.. Please disagree in a civilized way. For what my God taught me, hate the belief, not the believer. Condemn the actions,Continue reading “a Civilized Way to Disagree”
Mumbling #6 – Social Media
Do you know that social media is a social thing, not your own private stuff? I almost can’t stop my self from laughing every time I hear or read a defensive sentence such as “this is my account, I can do whatever I want with it, if you all feel uncomfortable, feel free to unfriend/unfollow/unshareContinue reading “Mumbling #6 – Social Media”
Truth is: We are dating our own mind
Have you feel loved? Have you feel special? Have you feel neglected? Have you feel disappointed? Yes. I Know you have. We are all have experienced those feeling. If you are now in a relationship, do you really feel happy about what your spouse does for you? Are you really satisfied with your relationship? IContinue reading “Truth is: We are dating our own mind”
Emaaakkkkk
Baru aja kemarin saya baca artikel tentang pegawai wanita yang diberhentikan karena dianggap terlalu menarik dan mengganggu kinerja para pegawai pria. Kemudian ada lagi CEO salah satu perusahaan besar yang kebetulan wanita menjadi feature pada salah satu tabloid dianggap merendahkan jabatannya karena dia berpose cantik layaknya wanita. Layaknya. Wanita. Something sounds wrong there. And thenContinue reading “Emaaakkkkk”
mumbling #2
Go up close to your friend, but do not go over to him! We should also respect the enemy in our friend. -Friedrich Nietzsche I don’t know what I want to state in this post. Been through harsh time recently and just couldn’t find the perfect words to describe what i’ve been through in myContinue reading “mumbling #2”
Empati, Toleransi dan Ketidakpedulian
Empati, selama saya belajar ilmu psikologi selalu diartikan sebagai suatu kondisi dimana kita bisa merasakan perasaan orang lain dan bisa menempatkan diri kita pada posisi orang tersebut. Toleransi adalah bagaimana kita bisa saling menghormati hak dan kewajiban orang lain sehingga tidak saling membenturkan hak tiap-tiap individu sedangkan ketidakpedulian adalah bagaimana kita membiarkan saja seseorang melakukanContinue reading “Empati, Toleransi dan Ketidakpedulian”
Labelling
Menyambung post ini, saya juga ingin membagi opini saya mengenai hal lain yang bisa menimbulkan prasangka, bukan hanya diturunkan oleh orang tua kita saja. Beberapa waktu yang lalu saya dapat curhatan dari seorang teman yang lagi ada masalah dengan beberapa orang temannya. Mungkin sebelum saya bercerita lebih jauh, saya beri ilustrasi nya dulu ya.. PanggilContinue reading “Labelling”
The Origin of Prejudice
When we were children, our parents used to teach us how to greet others, how to respect the older people, how to care the younger and how to interact with our peers. They share their values to us, consciously or unconsciously and we become an imitation of them…. for a while, until we are closerContinue reading “The Origin of Prejudice”
bangsat!
“wah, apa kabar lu Njing?” “gila lu nge’! udah sukses aja lu sekarang ya” “eh Nyet, lama banged lu gue tunggu-tunggu nggak datang-datang, gue kepret juga lu boy!” “emang setan tu orang ya, gua sumpahin mandul tujuh turunan dah!” “heh kunyuk, anjing, jadi juga lu keterima disana ya, selamat ya! bangsat, keren juga lu!” honestlyContinue reading “bangsat!”
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