Author Archives: darkjasm

A woman who loves black and white but stuck in between. a Happy wife and proud Mother trying to navigate the world of psychology in national security. Currently loves to write about life and what happen around it. Expect to find many random thoughts in between.

a Civilized Way to Disagree

If you are not in the same path with others in one thing, if what they did hurt you deep in the heart, even if it really is something beyond forgiven in your faith.. Please disagree in a civilized way. For what my God taught me, hate the belief, not the believer. Condemn the actions,Continue reading “a Civilized Way to Disagree”

About losing someone

Today’s Prompt: Write about a loss: something (or someone) that was part of your life, and isn’t any more. Make today’s post the first in a three-post series. I was crying so hard when my sister joins me in our tiny living room. “What happened? Why are you crying so hard that your nose is redContinue reading “About losing someone”

The Forever Songs in My Life

Do I really need to explain this? Every one loves Harry Potter! (Okay, it is an overgeneralizing, but I refuse to believe that there is a person out there who hates Harry) 😀 Just by hearing this melody could bring all the great memories of our adventure with the Boy Who Lived. I was inContinue reading “The Forever Songs in My Life”

Feels like Home

“Home is a name, a word, it is a strong one; stronger than magician ever spoke, or spirit ever answered to, in the strongest conjuration.” – Charles Dickens My nostrils are dancing happily because of this sweet smell: the smell of a hot cup of coffee blend with cinnamon. I really love to taste theContinue reading “Feels like Home”

Unlocking my mind….in Garut

Okay, I join The April Writing 101 in Blogging University (after I couldn’t complete it last year), hoping that I can complete it this year. Our first task is to write our stream of consciousness in 20 minutes. I had to put my phone in stopwatch mode in order to keep my mind on thisContinue reading “Unlocking my mind….in Garut”

Chasing The Sun

Happy National Movie Day! I remember one Indonesia Movie that trigger my emotional memory. That movie is “Mengejar Matahari” (literally translated as Chasing the Sun). This movie is about 4 boys with an amazing friendship which is built through years since their childhood time. Their friendship is in danger when they grow up with oneContinue reading “Chasing The Sun”

…on Friend and Friendship

“Books! And cleverness! There are more important things – friendship and bravery” – Hermione Granger Every Potterhead like me must have been dreaming about having friends and friendship like what Harry had in his journey, but our reality is different from Harry’s reality because we are living in this boring muggle’s universe. Friendship is carvedContinue reading “…on Friend and Friendship”

Sakitnya tuh di sini….

-Ruang Tim Evaluasi Kinerja- *telepon berdering* Saya: “Halo” Penelepon (Bapak-bapak): “Halo.. ruangan tim *** ya?” Saya: “Iya benar pak, dari siapa pak?” Penelepon: “Saya ***** dari **, Ada anggota tim yang laki-laki, mbak?” Saya: “Ada apa, pak? Ada yang bisa saya bantu?” Penelepon: “Saya mau ngomong sama yang lain, yang laki-laki. Ada?” Saya: “@$%$%^”  Continue reading “Sakitnya tuh di sini….”

I really am not OKAY

Happy Mother’s day for all the mother in this world, whether alive or passed away.. but.. I won’t write about mother’s day… I have been neglecting this blog for far too long, I wish I could make my work as an excuse, I wish I could say that I have nothing to write. Instead, IContinue reading “I really am not OKAY”